“The Breakup You Didn’t Know You Were In”
Have you ever been in a relationship where you were connected to someone who didn’t love you back?
Well let me tell you, I most certainly have. It was dark, it was cold, it was lonely and it was depressing. I felt trapped inside of a bad movie that felt like it didn't have ending. Can you relate?
You give your all, your time, your energy, your loyalty and yet somehow it’s never enough. You’re the one doing the calling, the checking in, the showing up. You’re always trying to prove that what you bring is worthy of being chosen. And after a while, the silence starts to speak louder than the words ever did.
But what if I told you… this isn’t about them?
What if the real heartbreak isn’t coming from a person at all...but from your purpose?
Just like being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t love you back, who walks by and doesn’t even speak, who withholds the attention you crave. That’s exactly how many of us treat our purpose.
We forget to spend time with it.
We stop getting to know it.
We take it for granted.
Everyone else can see how valuable it is, how much potential it carries, yet we treat it like background noise. We leave our dreams waiting at the table, dressed up and hopeful, while we chase everything and everyone else.
As Tamia beautifully sung, “There’s a stranger in my house.” That’s how your purpose feels.
It’s sitting quietly in the dark, waiting for the version of you who’s bold enough to believe , the version who once dreamed out loud, who dared to look crazy for chasing something bigger than you. But life got busy. Comfort crept in. Logic started winning over leaps of faith.
And yet… purpose is patient.
It doesn’t walk away...it waits.
What if the emptiness you feel isn’t burnout, but heartbreak? What if your purpose is whispering, “You don’t spend time with me anymore.”
The truth is, you’re only as committed as your last yes.
So when was your last YES?
When was the last time you said yes to the discipline, yes to the vision, yes to what God told you before you saw the proof it would work?
Can I just tell you, the real danger isn’t failing… it’s falling out of love with what you were created for.
Don’t become that person years from now, staring at the “what could have been” version of yourself, rehearsing stories that begin with “I almost…”
Purpose doesn’t want apologies. It wants action.
So maybe it’s time to rekindle the flame.
Take yourself out on a date with your goals.
Show up dressed in discipline.
Order faith for the table.
Toast to consistency.
It’s time to stop chasing who and what doesn’t love you back and start loving what’s been waiting on you all along. And maybe you don't know what you're purpose is or grown weary doing the thing you swore you called to do. Either way PURPOSE is waiting to be rekindled and loved the right way.
So, let’s start to date our goals and give them the attention they deserve. Think of me as your dating coach for your dreams, here to help you reconnect, rebuild, and believe again.
Book your session now at Happy Hour Coaching
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